Saturday, August 22, 2009

SOS Yeah That's Right


I know, I know why do I stay so stuck in the same old muck? I don't know, it just seems like I need to do everything different maybe like George Costanza on Seinfeld where everything went right when he did the exact opposite as he had always done. I hold on to the past and to the present to a fault and don't move on or up. I am slipping back and getting paralyzed and this is not good that's for sure. I feel pretty much alone in this and really can't figure out how to break this pattern that seems so destructive in my life. I go in and out of depression and can't concentrate on anything too long. I am not getting things done or moving on, so I'm at a stand still until I finally decide to just jump out of this restrictive lifestyle and go do something. Mortgages to pay, bills to pay, obligations to live up to, people to please, responsibilities that don't end, a life doing meaningless toil without worth or reward, how about that. That is my life, no wonder I crave a change. I'm sorry for being negative and I know some people will just say "Oh shit not this again." and one of them is me.


See Ya Dave

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Alone In a Crowded Room


What the hell does that mean? That I have voluntarily isolated myself maybe not consciously. I am just sick of myself, I just can't get it right. I don't keep track of my money and I overspend and I overdraft my accounts. This make Mary very mad at me and she thinks I'm lying to her. I am not doing this on purpose I just lose track and don't face up to it. I am losing everything I ever thought I wanted and I feel so old and useless. Mary says I'm always negative and she doesn't want to here it or be around it. So we have been separated for quite a while, but I had hoped we were trying to get back together. Well the other day she looked at my accounts online and I had overdrafted a lot and she got really mad and told me that was it, it's over between us. I have made a lot of mistakes in my life, made the wrong choices, took the wrong actions or just hid from reality and hope it would all go away or get better. It never did and now at my age where I should be starting to relax, it ain't gonna happen. So what do I do? I don't know. My day to day work and life are boring and meaningless. I struggle to keep what? I got nothing. Is that about enough negative for one rant, sorry. See Ya Dave